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Happiness is really a choice.

Facebook can really piss you off at times, smiling faces, celebrations, you see people whom are not really your friend,but you added them a few years ago, you see some posts and all you can remember is the pain they had caused you in the past, you read  opinions that make you shudder with disbelief, Various religious beliefs are pushed down your throat, you remember the tears, betrayal of friendships, office politics, failures, bleak future predicted by some.
The number of likes , and comments that follow these annoying post are interestingly high, "Oyindamola, comot eye, no spoil your mood" I tell myself.
One morning, I saw a post of  someone I knew in the past,  as usual she was going on about her achievements, I could hear her voices in my head, I hissed, stupid cow I say to myself. Maybe it is time to quit Facebook, yet I can not dare, who would read my random ranting? It hits me like a thunderbolt,   " Variety is the spice of life" ( smiling to myself)
I do not enjoy Parents Forums, it puts me  in a sense of  inadequacy,  there is always a busybody whom always seems to have a

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word of unsolicited advice. As  a young mum, I dreaded immunization days and baby check ups at the doctors, the nurses always complained about me giving my baby formula,but what was I to do? I did not enjoy breastfeeding, however medical advice is advice ,not law!
Another thing that pisses me off is the use of foundation and powder,  in recent times the use of  powder and foundation has become a norm, it does really look nice, however it is annoying when  you are expected to wear foundation because everyone else is.

I just wanted to get this thoughts out my head.
Life is worth living happy.
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