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Success is not as complicated.

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Life is not as complicated as we think it is, we just need to keep moving.

Success is relative, Success differs from person to person , however success comes from when " you have achieved your own goals" for those of us in Sales, achieving set targets have various rewards, Bonuses, promotion, many a times reviewed targets just to name a few, however personal goals should not be about buying a new car or building a new house, we need to live quality lives. Being a Nigerian living in Nigeria I continuously punch myself talking to myself "What am I doing in this Country?"My daughters are growing fast into Young Ladies and it is heartbreaking when I can not find a decent pair of Trainers to buy, { Not that I can not afford them, just not enough available in the stores as everybody stocks low quality.I finally get a pair but it costs an arm an a leg! }

It takes inner strength to live on your own terms, because you have no applause along the way but yourself, if you are waiting for somebody to say "Great Job!" I feel so sorry for you. the truth is your job is to be the best version of yourself so why do you need the applause. Being the best version of you includes being the best parent, spouse,friend,soul mate to yourself . Naturally it blossoms and shows itself to everyone else effortlessly. I have met quite a number of mean people in my life, however they pass by like every Season, and at one time they are in the distant past, horrible managers, nasty colleagues, greedy in laws, dirty Neighbors, the truth is it is always about you to yourself.

Love yourself as much as you can, nobody owes you love, whomsoever who gives you love, has given you a gift, but you cannot receive the gift if you do not love yourself. You disappoint yourself if you await the World to be loyal to you, you would become bitter and you loose your joy, betrayal comes to you when you notice  the betrayal of others.

Let go of the pain in your heart, I am hugging you from here. Love yourself, your heart will heal faster than the crap of forgiving the person who hurt you so deep. I tell you from experience that once you begin focusing on yourself Miracles begin.

Life is worth living Happy!

Oyindamogold.

 

 

 
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